Little Children, Big Challenges – Divorce – Sizzle Reel

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The lesson “Understanding Divorce Through the Eyes of Children” explores the emotional challenges children face during their parents’ divorce, using relatable characters like Abby, Elmo, and Rosita to convey important messages. It highlights common feelings such as sadness, confusion, and love, while emphasizing the importance of open communication and reassurance from parents to help children navigate this difficult transition. Ultimately, the lesson underscores that despite changes in family dynamics, the love between parents and children remains constant.
  1. What does Abby say about how her parents still feel about her, even though they live apart?
  2. How can talking to someone help kids feel better when their parents are getting divorced?
  3. Why is it important for kids to know that both parents still love them, even if they live in different places?

Understanding Divorce Through the Eyes of Children

Divorce can be a tough time for families, especially for kids who might not understand what’s happening. In a fun show with characters like Abby, Elmo, and Rosita, they talk about divorce and help kids understand their feelings and questions about it.

What is Divorce?

Divorce is when parents decide not to be married anymore and live in different places. Abby explains that her parents used to live together, but because of “grown-up problems,” they decided to live apart. This can be confusing for kids because it changes how their family looks.

The Emotional Impact of Divorce

Kids can feel lots of different emotions when their parents get divorced. Abby says that even though her parents live apart, they both still love her very much. Other kids feel the same way and share their feelings about the changes.

Common Feelings Children May Experience

  • Sadness: Kids might feel sad because they can’t see one parent every day, which can make them miss that parent a lot.
  • Confusion: Divorce can be hard to understand. Kids might wonder why their parents can’t live together anymore.
  • Love: Even with changes, kids still love both parents. One child said that even though their dad doesn’t live with them, he will always be their daddy.

Coping with Divorce

It’s important for kids to have people to talk to about their feelings during a divorce. Abby says her mom helps her understand what’s happening, which is really helpful.

Tips for Parents

  • Encourage Open Dialogue: Let kids talk about their feelings and ask questions. This helps them understand and feel better.
  • Reassure Your Child: Remind kids that both parents love them, even if they live in different places. This makes them feel safe and loved.
  • Seek Professional Help if Needed: Sometimes, talking to a counselor can help kids feel better about the changes in their family.

Conclusion

Divorce is a big change that can be hard for kids. By talking openly and giving lots of love, parents can help their kids through this time. Abby and her friends show that even if families change, the love between parents and kids stays the same. Understanding these feelings can help kids feel better and more supported.

For more help and information on supporting kids through divorce, visit sesamestreet.org/divorce.

  • Have you ever felt confused or sad about something that changed in your life? How did you talk about your feelings, and who helped you understand what was happening?
  • Why do you think it’s important for kids to talk about their feelings when their parents are going through a divorce? How can talking help them feel better?
  • Imagine if you were a friend to someone whose parents are getting divorced. What would you say or do to help them feel loved and supported?
  1. Feelings Journal: Create a special journal where you can draw or write about your feelings. Each day, pick a feeling like happiness, sadness, or confusion, and draw a picture or write a sentence about a time you felt that way. Share your journal with a trusted adult and talk about your drawings or writings. This helps you understand and express your emotions better.

  2. Family Tree Activity: Make a family tree using paper and crayons. Include everyone in your family, even if they live in different places. Talk about how each person is special to you. This activity helps you see that even if your family looks different now, everyone is still connected by love.

  3. Role-Playing with Toys: Use your favorite toys to act out a story about a family going through changes. Let your toys express different feelings like happiness, sadness, or confusion. After the play, discuss with a friend or adult how the toys felt and what made them feel better. This helps you understand that it’s okay to have different feelings and that talking about them can help.

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