In today’s digital world, you can create avatars and chat with people online. Sometimes, this can be frustrating because you might encounter rude people you don’t really know. However, the internet also allows you to make friends, play games together, and help each other out. It’s a place where you can connect with many people, even if you don’t know them personally.
The internet is a lively and creative space, but it can also lead to misunderstandings. Adults often worry that the anonymity of the online world might encourage kids to say or do things they wouldn’t in real life. For example, I’ve seen friends post things that quickly get out of hand, which is just how the internet can be sometimes.
When I moved from California to Maui, I experienced some online drama. A misunderstanding led to a girl harassing me online because she thought I was involved with her friend’s boyfriend, who was actually my cousin. It was hurtful to see people post things about me instead of talking to me directly. At school, the girl acted friendly, which was confusing. I eventually reached out to her to clear things up, but it didn’t really solve the problem.
Despite the challenges, the internet helped me stay connected with my friends after moving. This was really important to me because having supportive friends made a big difference. It’s comforting to know there are people who care about you.
The internet can be a great way to connect with others, but it can also lead to negative interactions. Here are some tips for parents and teachers to help kids navigate this connected culture:
Encourage kids to show you the online communities they are part of, like social networks, virtual worlds, and gaming communities.
Remind them that the golden rule—treat others as you want to be treated—applies online too. Encourage kindness and respect in all interactions.
Discuss what to do if they face harassment or bullying. Advise them not to delete messages or retaliate, but to block bullies and inform a trusted adult or friend.
If your child is bullying others, set firm consequences and follow through to ensure they understand the impact of their actions.
Even comments meant to be funny can be hurtful, so encourage kids to create positive online communities. This is their world, and how they treat each other can lead to better online interactions and a better world overall.
Design a digital avatar that represents you. Think about how you want to present yourself online and what your avatar says about you. Share your avatar with the class and discuss how avatars can impact online interactions.
Participate in role-playing activities where you act out different online scenarios. Practice responding to both positive and negative interactions. Discuss how different responses can change the outcome of an online situation.
Work in groups to create a campaign promoting kindness and respect online. Design posters or social media posts that encourage positive interactions. Share your campaign with the school community.
Share personal experiences or stories about online drama. Discuss how misunderstandings can escalate online and brainstorm strategies to resolve conflicts peacefully. Reflect on how these strategies can be applied in real life.
Collaborate with classmates to create a set of guidelines for a positive online community. Discuss how these guidelines can be implemented in your own online interactions and how they can improve the digital world.
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So you can use avatars and chat with others. There was someone who was bothering me, and it was frustrating because you don’t really know them. People can be rude online. You talk to each other, do things together in the game, and help each other out. I have a lot of friends on Myspace, but I don’t know all of them personally. The internet connects everyone, but that can lead to misunderstandings.
Digital life is becoming more interactive. This connected culture is vibrant and creative, yet adults worry that the anonymity of the digital world can lead kids to say and do things online that they wouldn’t in person. I’ve seen my friends post things that get blown out of proportion; that’s just how the internet works.
I lived in California, and when I moved to Maui, people had a lot to say about me. One time, I had a disagreement with a girl because her friend thought I was commenting on her boyfriend, who is actually my cousin. She got upset and started harassing me online. It was frustrating because they would post bulletins about me, and I felt hurt. I was mad that someone would talk behind my back instead of confronting me directly.
At school, she would act nice, which confused me. I eventually reached out to her to understand what the issue was. I replied to her bulletin, thanking my friends who were supportive and didn’t spread rumors. She accused me of being involved with someone else’s boyfriend, but I explained the situation. It didn’t really resolve anything, and that was the end of it.
Some people take social media too seriously, but I try not to because it’s not real life. It helped me stay connected with my friends when I moved, which was really important to me. If I didn’t have my friends, I would have felt miserable. It’s nice to know that there are people who care.
The internet can connect people positively, but it can also lead to negative interactions. The anonymity can give kids a sense of courage, but it can also hinder their ability to feel empathy. Here are some tips for parents and teachers to help kids navigate this connected culture:
1. Ask kids to show you the online communities they participate in, such as social networks, virtual worlds, and gaming communities.
2. Teach them that the golden rule applies online as well as offline—encourage kindness and respect.
3. Discuss what to do if they experience harassment or bullying. Advise them not to delete messages or retaliate, but to block bullies and inform a trusted adult or friend.
4. If your child is bullying others, establish firm consequences and follow through.
Even comments meant to be funny can be hurtful. Encourage kids to create positive online communities. This is their world, and how they treat each other can lead to better online interactions and a better world overall.
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Digital – Relating to technology and electronic devices that use computer systems to store and process information. – Many students use digital tools like tablets and computers to complete their homework assignments.
Online – Connected to or available through the internet. – During the pandemic, many schools switched to online classes to continue education safely.
Friends – People whom you know well and like, and who like you in return. – Making new friends in school can help students feel more comfortable and supported.
Kindness – The quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate to others. – Showing kindness to classmates can create a positive and welcoming school environment.
Respect – A feeling of admiration for someone or something because of their abilities, qualities, or achievements. – It is important to show respect to teachers and peers by listening when they speak.
Bullying – Repeated aggressive behavior intended to hurt or intimidate someone. – Schools have programs to prevent bullying and promote a safe learning environment for all students.
Harassment – Unwanted and annoying actions or comments that cause distress to someone. – Harassment can happen in person or online, and it’s important to report it to a trusted adult.
Communities – Groups of people living in the same area or having a particular characteristic in common. – Communities often come together to celebrate local events and support each other.
Interactions – Communications or direct involvement with someone or something. – Positive interactions with classmates can lead to better teamwork and collaboration.
Culture – The beliefs, customs, arts, and way of life of a particular society or group. – Learning about different cultures helps students appreciate diversity and understand the world better.
