Why Do We Get Mad?

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In the lesson “Understanding Anger: A Fun Exploration,” Squeaks and the narrator discuss the physical and emotional signs of anger, highlighting how both humans and animals express this strong emotion. They explain how anger triggers bodily reactions, such as clenched jaws and increased heart rates, and emphasize the importance of managing these feelings through techniques like deep breathing and counting to ten. The lesson encourages children to explore their own feelings and find effective strategies for handling anger in everyday situations.
  1. What are some signs that show when someone is feeling angry?
  2. How does our body react when we feel angry, and why do you think that happens?
  3. What are some ways you can calm down when you feel angry?

Understanding Anger: A Fun Exploration

Squeaks and I were having fun making different faces for photos. We tried silly, sad, and surprised faces. Can you guess my last one? It was my angry face! Did you notice the clues? My eyebrows went down, and I had a big frown.

What Happens When We Get Angry?

When people feel angry, our bodies react in similar ways. Think about the last time you felt mad. Maybe you lost a game or didn’t get something you wanted. You might have clenched your teeth, felt your stomach hurt, or started breathing fast. Anger is a strong emotion, and it makes our bodies do many things at once.

Our bodies are great at keeping us safe. When we get angry, our brain sends messages to prepare us for a possible threat. Even if it’s just losing a game, our body acts like there might be danger. This is why we make angry faces, clench our jaws, and frown. These signs tell others to “back off.”

Animal Anger Signals

Many animals show anger in special ways too. Dogs growl, cats arch their backs, and apes show their teeth. When Squeaks gets mad, he squeaks louder to sound tough. Sometimes, just showing anger can scare off a threat.

How Our Bodies Prepare for Anger

If the threat doesn’t go away, our bodies get ready to fight. This can make us feel funny because our body focuses on being ready to fight, not on things like digesting food. This might make your stomach hurt. Your eyes focus on what’s making you mad, and your brain releases adrenaline, a chemical that helps you react quickly.

Managing Anger

Our bodies are amazing at protecting us, but we don’t always need these reactions for everyday anger. If someone disagrees with us or we lose a game, fighting isn’t the right choice. It can be hard to make good choices when we’re angry because our body is in overdrive.

When I’m angry, I try to take deep breaths and count to ten slowly. This helps my brain and body cool off before I decide what to do. I also make sure to eat well and get enough sleep because being tired or hungry can make us angrier faster.

Maybe you can try these tricks next time you feel angry or frustrated. See which ones work best for you!

Join Us for More Fun!

Thanks for exploring with us today! Do you have any tips for when you’re feeling angry? Or questions about other feelings? You can ask a grown-up to help you visit our website at patreon.com/scishowkids to check it out. See you next time at the Fort!

  • Can you think of a time when you felt really angry? What happened, and how did your body feel? Did you notice any changes like a fast heartbeat or a frown?
  • Animals show their anger in different ways, like dogs growling or cats arching their backs. Have you ever seen an animal showing it was angry? What did it do, and how did you know it was upset?
  • When you feel angry, what are some things you like to do to help yourself calm down? Do you have any special tricks, like taking deep breaths or counting to ten, that help you feel better?
  1. Face the Feelings: Gather a small mirror and sit in a circle with your friends or family. Take turns making different facial expressions like happy, sad, surprised, and angry. Look in the mirror and notice how your face changes with each emotion. Discuss with each other how these expressions might help others understand how you’re feeling. Can you think of a time when you saw someone else’s face and knew how they felt?
  2. Animal Anger Charades: Pretend to be different animals showing their anger signals. For example, you can growl like a dog, arch your back like a cat, or show your teeth like an ape. Ask your friends or family to guess which animal you are. After each turn, talk about why animals might show these signals and how it helps them stay safe.
  3. Calm Down Countdown: Create a “Calm Down” jar using a clear jar, water, glitter, and glue. Shake the jar when you feel angry and watch the glitter swirl around. As the glitter settles, practice taking deep breaths and counting to ten. Notice how your body feels as you calm down. Share with someone how this activity helps you manage your anger and think of other ways you can calm down when you’re upset.

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